I happened several times to receive email or read on a forum post which began precisely with the phrase "Help, I'm a lesbian", sometimes with the final question.

Perhaps you too have written at least once ... Do not panic, let's see what happens and how you handle the situation.

Do you realize you try something for a friend, for your teacher or a classmate. It is the well-known affection, but something different.

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Senti heart beat faster when you're close when you greet the street, when the phone rings and you discover that she is calling you.

And then the look, the look, known as dress, if it is sad. No, not to be like her. You want her, you do not want to be like her. This is one of the things that you will be told to justify your interest in her, which is basically just a desire to be like her, nothing more ... in fact, nothing more wrong!

There are two possibilities:

1) Are you happy to be a lesbian, I fully support your parents, at school or at work no problem, no doubt, guilt or "religious", are you happy just like your heterosexual friends.

2) You are confused and do not want to be a lesbian, the same word bothers you, you're afraid to talk to your images already because their reaction terrifying, if you say you get fired at work, your religion forbids you, no, c 'nothing is going well in being a lesbian.

The first case is for a few chosen, rare and hard to get the first shot. Sometimes it takes so long to arrive at an optimal situation like this. In 90% of cases, and perhaps in yours, is not easy to face the situation.

Some helpful advice

a) Even if your friends, your parents, your religion and society does not accept homosexuality does not mean that there is something wrong with being a lesbian. Only you have nurtured since childhood that the "right thing" is falling in love, and love a man, not a woman.

b) Maybe you're not even lesbian. You may be bisexual or just curious about sex with another woman. Take your time to make things clear. And if even noticing that you're a lesbian is not the end of the world. You just start to accept it and know what this word means to you.

c) There are so many feelings and emotions you are feeling: confusion, doubt, guilt, despair, sadness, rejection, loneliness and isolation. Here's the thing to avoid it at all. Do not isolate, there are many women who are experiencing the same difficulties you and many of them have overcome them brilliantly.
Even if you do not feel like going to a local association or lesbian can always call or write an email to ask for advice. Or you can write in a forum topic or on a site like this, which is concerned with homosexuality.

d) the term lesbian is often associated with a stereotype of masculine woman, abnormal, aggressive, unattractive, and negative with manly men. Some women are lesbians so, but NOT all lesbians are like that. Just like blondes with blue eyes are not all equal.

e) Another stereotype is that lesbians do not love children and hate men. And if you instead want children and have had affairs with men think you are not so lesbian. You can be a lesbian, to have peaceful relations with men (without anger, resentment, etc.) and want to have children. And contrary to what was stated on the "sterility constitutional" if there are other physical problems, you are absolutely fertile and able to procreate, even with fertility treatment.

Well, the situation is more complex and certainly there will be more posts on this topic. I'll leave you with a question: Have you ever thought about having the right to happiness? If you wish, leave a comment.

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