As you may have noticed I wanted to take the title of this post a famous song of the rich and poor, a little playing on the words of his text.

We talk about acceptance of their homosexuality, and positive and negative factors that can influence this process.

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Before the factors listed above, I want to refer briefly to the stages of this process of self-acceptance, a process that sometimes lasts even a lifetime. I will explain more in another post :)

We consider a first stage prior to setting in which to try to recognize people of their interest in sex, but rejects the idea of being homosexual.

A second phase called for self-definition in which you start thinking of being homosexual, but you think it's just one thing that affects your sexuality, not involving your whole identity.

A third phase, subsequent self-definition as part of you will accept this and try to incorporate it into your "old" identity.

All right. There are factors that influence these positive steps and factors that may have a negative influence on the other hand, making it very difficult and heavy. Here we go.

POSITIVE FACTORS

  • Having a critical attitude towards the rules and gender roles. If you are not already agree with the social, family, where you do not recognize and accept the defaults and rigid gender roles (eg, females should take care of home, the males do not) have a good chance to accept your homosexuality without drama.
  • Do not be tied to gender roles and have no expectations as heterosexual. Women who have grown up thinking that there are things that women can not do as women and dreaming of the white veil and many children will have more difficulty seeing themselves as lesbians and in accepting as compared to those who, on the contrary, has never worried about such things.
  • Having a good self-esteem and self-image. * Who is sure of himself, he appreciates and welcomes you to discover more easily accept homosexual.
  • If you are lucky enough to be cresciut * in a tolerant, where preference is given to various ways of being positively assessed the differences, you are already a horse :)

NEGATIVE FACTORS

  • To believe that homosexuality is an illness or deviance. This can be a big obstacle and lead to serious psychological problems, especially in cases where one finds oneself homosexual despite having chosen to marry and have children.
  • Strong religious beliefs can make you live your homosexuality as a sin and therefore as a sin to be expiated. Nothing could be further from the truth. There are also Catholic and other religious groups (eg, Valdes) who accept with serenity homosexual believers).
  • People close to you and you are very legat * who have a negative view of homosexuality and express anger and disgust.
  • Having a homosexual stereotype in your mind. We were wrong in thinking that all homosexuals are effeminate and women's dress or all of the gay dress and behave like the worst existing males.

What can I do if I am in a situation like this?

It may be useful to call a group of homosexuals to get more information, dealing with homosexual or someone you know who inspires you friendly confidence, speak with a qualified psychologist and trained on these issues.

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