I read in an article in a journal of the American Music Therapy, I can not remember the details but I will definitely, there are homosexuals and gay.
And not all gay people are gay, but gay men are all homosexuals.

How is this possible?

Excluding the factor that usually are included in this differentiation also lesbians, the article pointed out how "homosexuals" are those that are attratt * from persons of the same sex but are as it were "veiled / and". The "Gay" on the contrary, both male and female, would he / she is gay but that "come out", have done their coming out.

Foto credit: Berkeley University

Photo credit: Berkeley University

We seek to better understand what it is. Coming out the word derives from the English phrase coming out of the closet ("out of the closet" or "come out of hiding," but literally "out of the closet wall"), meaning "coming out".
Indicates the time when you decide to declare their homosexuality to family, friends, acquaintances.
There is one coming out but infinite: every time you choose to speak to someone of your sexual orientation is a new coming out.

For some it is a very easy and straightforward way: an almost spontaneous mention of this important part of himself and does so naturally leaving displaced by those who do have a tremendous fear of it.

For others, the path is more intricate and difficult, and almost always studded with negative feelings and emotions: fear, fear, shame, guilt.

Why do it then?

Why is honesty always pays in life. It gives great satisfaction. I believe that if you want to live well, with serenity and joy is essential to be honest with stess *.

It will not be easy and the first reaction that people who say it could be for you to have a good thrashing. But statistically, in most cases (we're talking almost 98%) with time situations and improve relationships and those around us will receive your "new identity" without killing :)

There are also a number of advantages in choosing to reveal himself to those around us:

  • You will feel happy. Picture by in his book "Sons different" likens this situation to a concentration camp survivor and emphasizes that "you'll wonder how you managed to endure for so long." Generally wasting so much energy into hiding and invent new lies and now you can use the same energy to live better. Eye, however: to tell those around you is just the first step, certainly does not solve all your life!
  • You can remove any blackmail. There are people who could take advantage of your being velat * to blackmail by threatening to reveal everything to your parents, your friends or your employer. Like any blackmail explain why you are able to leverage blackmailed blackmailer. It makes you feel liber *.
  • Anyone who appreciates sincerity. Even if it hurts sincerity is a quality appreciated by anyone, especially if it is the respect for themselves. It 's easier to make jokes in front of "velat *" do not have the courage and strength to fight back rather than in front of a declared homosexual person who can respond in kind.
  • Your relationships will improve. I know you probably will not believe me but, after the often violent reaction of the family, you can create a relationship based on sincerity and trust, and in most cases better than it was before. No one is equal to one another and that goes for households and for single-parent-figl *. Do not rush it, sometimes it takes years for things to change. But change always for the better, the worst is always the beginning.
  • You can change the world. No, I'm not kidding. To change the world just change yourself and then slowly the people around us. And your talk with the serenity of your homosexuality at odds with the image of homosexuals perverted, depraved and evil that others have in the head, forcing them to change their mind or rather pre-pre-judgment. You seem a little?

Important notice

You liber * to choose whether and when to make your coming out, you should not feel obligated just because your other friends have already done or someone pushes you to do so. Nor do you simply because you now know to be homosexual.

But do not make excuses: no one who has come out has repented of having done so, although it was sometimes so easy as he thought. It can also happen that the whole world to know before you who are homosexual and this will help you when you decide to cross the threshold of your new life.

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