Life as a heterosexual - Part Two
We continue the "journey" in heterosexuality, sexual deviancy and abnormality seen in a world (hypothetical) of homosexuals. The first part you can find it here.
You just made your moms coming out with your (or your dad) and they have not taken very well.
In fact, contacted psicolog * a * (obviously gay) to know how to behave and to request an appointment for you. Because surely there is something wrong and a specialist * will solve everything and treat your heterosexuality.

Since you say you feel your marchiat *, feel the eyes of others upon you, as you would read on the front that you are straight. And sometimes, when you walk down the street, someone on a motorcycle passes you by and insults you "Ugly hetero m **** a." At school (if still in school vai) all make fun of you, when you walk away clinging to the walls, as if I had a contagious disease. And you want to be normal, just like them, who do not have these problems.
At work (on the contrary if you already work) if they ask to speak of / to * you * fidanzat change its name with one of the same sex, talk about being with someone but do not specify the sex, you do not have problems.
If you start talking about rights for heterosexuals someone raises his voice and screams that you are (and are) sick, you should burn them one by one, you're disgusting and then nothing but love for children ... a child needs two mothers or two dads to live peacefully and grow "normal".
Your closest friends, although they accepted that are heterosexual, are not very happy to see / you * the partners: they are uncomfortable if you two go out together and walk arm in arm, like all couples in the world, or you exchange a kiss under my breath like they do with / to * own * fidanzat.
The phrase most often is:
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But you have no need to kiss in public and scream that you are heterosexual?
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And who will stop you from being together? This is a tolerant and open to diversity. Just do not make too much noise, there were good good in your homes and avoid slamming in the face to everyone that you are heterosexual.
The / * the comrades you have an accident on a motorbike, HANDSET * is in the hospital, the emergency room but do not let you go because you are a relative of mica. Try to say that you are / the comrades but they're just a * amic *, you're not gay like everyone else.
Sometimes you can even get to see a nurse out of hours because it closes a complacent eye, but look if the department is filled with gay comrades, because they are "regular" and "regulated", couples are legally recognized. But you're not nothing. Nobody recognizes you have the same rights as gay people, considered normal.
It may happen that while walking hand in hand with the / * to you comrades, like many gay couples, it bothers you that someone throws a bottle at him and when you turn arrabbiat * to ask him what he wants to date, this begins to beat wild punches, kicks, a beautiful head in the face ... and then suddenly felt a sharp pain in his side ... he just stabbed while you hate screaming in your face "You have to burst straight in the m ***". But for all it's just an attack, like many others. There is no motivation eterofobica.
In the end could happen to anyone, right?
And yet:
- You are invited to a wedding, but he / she can not come. The groom does not know how to explain to her his presence.
- Until some time ago (and still today in some small hospital) could not donate blood if dichiaravi initial interview to be heterosexual.
- Before Obama could not have the military claiming to be heterosexual.
- The / * the companion you are not entitled to survivor's pension. Unless one is parliamentary.
- You and / * the comrades you can not get married with all the benefits (including tax) that this entails.
- You can access discounts in pairs (eg, travel, insurance, etc.).
- If you or / * to you comrades in a coma * ALTR the partners can not decide on your / his victims to why is not / you are a relative.
- If you or your / your comrades you * dies * ALTR partner has no right to anything of his possessions by default, except for the presence of a will legally recognized (that surely will be challenged by your / his parents).
- If you have decided in your long history of love to have children, and dies / her biological parent, the other might never see the kids. Legally he has no right over them.
- Someone you should not tell the work that you are straight, in the past there have been layoffs for those who did. And when they turned to a lawyer or a union, the company said that the dismissal was for redundancy.
It would take many posts to explore the small details of the discrimination faced by gay people every day. I gave you a taste, I'd like to help me complete the picture.
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This post has 15 comments
September 8th, 2011
I participate in this discussion a bit 'in delay from the date of publication but I must say my
I am a 19 year old boy who, for about a year, has fully accepted his homosexuality. The path was certainly not easy and my acceptance of all the anxiety and paranoia that I had to overcome I have often spoken in my blog (in a post like this for example http://labussolaimpazzita.blogspot.com/2011/06/ Faith-homosexuality-and-io.html , where I explain how I was finally able to reconcile my membership in the Catholic religion with my homosexuality). And this path is not yet concluded, but is moving along good.
Many times, in the face of heterosexist insults or criticism directed at the gay world, I said: "If these people did for a moment pretend to be a world on the other hand, where" normal "= homosexuality, perhaps understand better what it say they can not have the same rights, not being able to live a life like everyone else, have in front of people you consider deviant, sick, not perfectly normal "
Well ... this article is a faithful transcription of what I had in mind. For this I must do my warm and sincere congratulations. Does it really reflect a lot.
And for this reason we would ask for permission to report and publicize the items in my little blog to provide food for thought to all those who read it.
July 30th, 2010
everyone should try to imagine a world turned upside x understand what we're trying to be discriminated against and treated as inferior just because we love our boys and girls love sex but has nn sex, we just love! ...
July 30th, 2010
very illuminating
I recently heard about a movie that was just that (the heterosexual protagonist is awakened in a world populated by homo). I do not remember the title ... anyone knows?
March 28th, 2010
Hello to all of you I am telling my story lasted 9 years hidden from everyone but not for my choice of x chosen my ex girlfriend said she loved me so much but k x k and fear being found out by his family chose to leave me ... I have given all of myself x years but not enough and eventually chose to stay with his family ... is not fair to give up love x true fear of judgment from all over the world but I still hope one day we'll live k and l 'love in the light of the sun ...
March 17th, 2010
needs to verify :)
January 13th, 2010
okay. I'm calm.
okay. I'm crying.
I am 22 years old and recently I have fought against homophobia (but I like to continue to fight in me again and again to keep her away from me as possible).
I read these two speeches and I'm feeling stupidly because of everything that I have used.
I knew all the problems that exist with the rights of us homosexuals.
The problem is that until now I've always said:
"I need you to kiss in public, the boy I love when I can do at home?"
I promise myself that today I will not think such a thing.
I want my damn rights sacrosanct.
such esteem <3
January 14th, 2010
Thanks Andrea for sharing with me and other readers what you're experiencing. The journey can be long and often painful ... hold on!
A hug
December 22nd, 2009
I wanted to make her my compliments about the articles, "prejudices about homosexuality," and also the last article I read "heterosexual life."
As a heterosexual woman pulling down their prejudices against homosexuality, thank you for opening my eyes to the "nuances".
Congratulations for your work! Keep it up!
Thanks
Silvia
December 23rd, 2009
Silvia Thanks for the compliments. You can contribute to bringing this article to other gay people and especially heterosexual like you.
Give us a hand if you like
January 8th, 2010
I am Catholic, so accustomed since childhood to look at people with respect, even love, regardless of any consideration. A person, whether good or bad, beautiful or ugly, intelligent or ignorant, rich or poor, healthy or sick, very intelligent or unintelligent, Catholic or Muslim, atheist or believer, heterosexual or homosexual, whatever ... deserves to be loved and respected.
Who offends or threatens, or injures or kills a homosexual commits a serious or very serious sin that must give account. In legal terms, then, is that right answer for any crimes he commits. So far I have no difficulty to express my full and unconditional solidarity with gay people. Solidarity as individuals, not as homosexuals.
I'd give my support to assaulting a police officer because of his uniform, to a mother for her role discriminated against, insulted an architect as such, a butcher because it is a vegetarian ... I would be willing to empathize with young people, the elderly, the sick and the workers ...
Raise solidarity with gay people as such would promote 'homosexuality, would argue that they are homosexual or heterosexual is irrelevant. No. Homosexuality is not equal to heterosexuality. It is not the same thing. Does not have the same meaning. It does not have the same consequences, or to the person or to society. Being homosexual or heterosexual is not indifferent.
You heterosexuals in sperticano explain how beautiful and good and just sympathize with homosexuals wonder: would you rather have a child homo or hetero?
Solidarity with the people ... you! ... Promotion of 'homosexuality ... no!
January 8th, 2010
No person is equal to (thankfully) to another. Homosexual and heterosexual share many things in common, among all the membership of the human race (and sometimes animal). But they have the same rights nor the same social recognition, or often the same respect. But pay the same taxes, have the same problems as heterosexual, fall in love and get sick as heterosexual, etc. ...
The fundamental difference is, as I try to understand these two articles, which are a minority in a heterosexist society, working under strict rules of genre and the only mode in which mistakenly considered normal or is that just straight.
All of this makes sense for you and your catholic religion, he has not the same way for a secular state, which must guarantee equal rights (and duties of course) at all. And impose a moral and religious beliefs as if it were the law or as if it were the only criterion for distinguishing what is good or bad, right or wrong, it is religious fanaticism. Phenomenon very, very dangerous.
You know what's the big problem facing gay people (and transgender)? Ignorance, heterosexism, homo and cross-negativity of people like you.
January 13th, 2010
"To heterosexuals who sperticano explain in what is beautiful and good and just sympathize with homosexuals wonder: would you rather have a child homo or hetero?"
People who know the value of love would respond with such, but its tranquility
they would rather have a child capable of loving.
October 28th, 2009
I completely immerse us to imagine the best, and see the world upside down makes a certain impression.
I'd like to read it straight and that there are many immedesimassero to the point of really understanding what it is.
December 22nd, 2009
The article has been read by me, Silvia, a hetero girl, that he realized how foolish it is to have prejudices against homosexuals.
And I'll tell you, I did a lot of good reading. I understood many things and killed so many mental barriers. If we read all this, perhaps society would be better!
October 23rd, 2009
It 's really a nice article, I do not know why but made me feel more peaceful about my homosexuality. Reading a thing does understand how it is all relative. And then identification with the part of the strong side of society is a real pleasure.
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