Heterosexual life - Part Two
We continue the "journey" in heterosexuality, sexual deviancy and abnormality seen in a world (hypothetical) of homosexuals. The first part you can find it here.
You just made your moms coming out with your (or your dad) and they have not taken very well.
In fact, psychologists have contacted a * * (obviously gay) to know how to behave and to obtain an appointment for you. Because surely there is something wrong * and a specialist will solve everything and take care of your heterosexuality.
Since you say you feel your marchiat *, feel the eyes of others upon you, as you would read on the front that you're heterosexual. And sometimes, when you walk on the street, someone on a motorbike passes by you and insults you "Bad Bait m **** in '. At school (if you still in school) all make fun of you, you walk away when attaching to the walls, as if I had a contagious disease. And you want to be normal, just like them, who do not have these problems.
At work (on the contrary, if already working) if you want to talk about / fidanzat * you * to change its name with one of the same sex, talk about being with a person but do not specify the sex, you do not have problems.
If you start talking about rights for heterosexuals someone raises his voice and screams that you are (and are) sick, they should burn them one by one, and then suck you do nothing but love for children ... a child needs two mothers Dad or two to live happily and grow "normal".
Your closest friends, although they accepted that you are heterosexual, are not very happy to see / You * The partners: they are uncomfortable if you two go out together and walk arm in arm, like all the couples in the world, or you exchange a kiss under my breath like they do with / to their fidanzat * *.
The most common phrase is:
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But you need to kiss in public and scream that you are heterosexual?
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And who will stop you from being together? This is a tolerant and open to diversity. Just do not make too much noise, there were good good in your home and avoid slamming in the face to everyone that you are heterosexual.
The / * the comrades you have an accident on a moped, bring * is in the hospital, but the emergency room do not make you go because you are a relative of mica. Try to say that you are / the comrades but they're just a * friend *, you're not gay like everyone else.
Sometimes you can even get to see a nurse after hours complacent because it turns a blind eye, but look at the case the department is filled with gay comrades, because they are "regular" and "regulated", couples are legally recognized. But you're not no. No one acknowledges you have the same rights as gay people, considered as normal.
It may happen that while walking hand in hand with the / * to you comrades, like many gay couples, this bothers you to someone who throws a bottle at him and when you get angry * turns to ask him what he wants to date, this starts to beat you savagely punches, kicks, a good head on her face ... and then suddenly felt a strong pain in his side ... he just stabbed you with hatred and screaming in my face "You have to burst straight m *** a". But for all it's just an attack, like so many others. There is no reason eterofobica.
In the end could happen to anyone, right?
And more:
- You are invited to a wedding, but he / she can not come. The groom does not know how to explain to her his presence.
- Until some time ago (and still today in some small hospital) could not donate blood if declared initial interview to be heterosexual.
- Before Obama could you have done the military claiming to be heterosexual.
- The / * the companion you are not entitled to survivor's pension. Unless one is parliament.
- You and / * the comrades you can not get married with all the benefits (including tax) that this entails.
- You can not have access to discounts in pairs (eg, travel, insurance, etc.).
- If you or / TU * comrades * ALTR is in a coma the partners can not decide on your / his victims to why it is / you are a relative.
- If you or / the comrades you * dies * ALTR partner does not have a right to anything of his possessions by default, except for the presence of a will legally recognized (which surely will be challenged by your / his parents).
- If you have decided in your long history of love to have children, and dies / her biological parent, the other might never see the children. Legally he has no right over them.
- Someone advised not to say that you're straight to work in the past there have been layoffs for those who did. And when they turned to a lawyer or a union, the company said that the dismissal was for redundancy.
It would take many posts to explore in fine detail the discrimination faced by gay people every day. I gave you a taste, I would like to help me complete the picture.
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September 8th, 2011
I participate in this discussion a little 'later than the date of publication but I want to say my
I am a 19 year old boy who, for about a year, has fully accepted his homosexuality. The course was certainly not easy and my acceptance of all the anxiety and paranoia that I had to overcome I have often talked about in my blog (in a post like this for example http://labussolaimpazzita.blogspot.com/2011/06/ Faith-homosexuality-and-io.html , where I explain how I was finally able to reconcile my membership in the Catholic religion with my homosexuality). And this path is not yet concluded, but it's going to the good.
Many times, in the face of heterosexist insults or criticism directed at the gay world, I said to myself: "If these people did for a moment pretend to be in a world on the other hand, where" normal "= homosexuality, perhaps, understand better what it say they can not have the same rights, not being able to live a life like everyone else, have in front of people you consider deviant, sick, not perfectly normal "
Well ... this article is the transcript of what I had in mind. For this I must do my warm and sincere congratulations. Does it really reflect a lot.
And for this reason I would like to ask for permission to report and publicize the items in my little blog to provide food for thought to all those who read it.
July 30th, 2010
everyone should try to imagine a world turned upside x understand what we're trying to be discriminated against and treated as inferior just because we love our boys and girls love sex but has No sex, just like you! ...
July 30th, 2010
very illuminating
I recently heard about a movie that was just this (the main character wakes up in a heterosexual world populated by homo). I do not remember the title ... does anyone know?
March 28th, 2010
Hello to all of you I am telling my story lasted 9 years of hiding from all my choice, but not for x k and the choice of my ex-girlfriend said she loved me very much afraid but x k is discovered by his family chose to leave me ... I have because my all x years but not enough and eventually chose to stay with his family ... is not fair to give up love x true fear of the opinion of the world but I still hope one day we can live k and s 'love in the light of the sun ...
March 17th, 2010
need to check:)
January 13th, 2010
okay. I am calm.
okay. I'm crying.
I am 22 years old and recently I have fought against homophobia (but I like to continue to fight it in myself again and again to keep it away from me as possible).
I read these two speeches and I'm feeling dumbed down because of everything that I have used.
I knew all the problems with existing rights of us homosexuals.
the problem is that until now I've always said:
"I need you to kiss in public, the boy I love when I can do at home?"
I promise myself that today I will not think more than anything like it.
I want my damn rights sacrosanct.
such esteem <3
January 14th, 2010
Thanks Andrew for sharing with me and other readers what you are experiencing. The journey can be long and often painful ... hold on!
A hug
December 22nd, 2009
I wanted to make her my compliments on the articles, "prejudices about homosexuality," and also the last article I read "heterosexual life."
As a heterosexual woman pulling down their prejudices against homosexuality, thank you for opening my eyes to the "nuances".
Congratulations for your work! Keep it up!
Thanks
Silvia
December 23rd, 2009
Silvia Thanks for the compliments. You can contribute to bringing this article to other gay people and especially heterosexual like you.
Give us a hand if you like
January 8th, 2010
I am Catholic, so accustomed since childhood to look at people with respect, even love, regardless of any consideration. A person, whether good or bad, beautiful or ugly, intelligent or ignorant, rich or poor, healthy or sick, very intelligent or unintelligent, Catholic or Muslim, atheist or believer, heterosexual or homosexual, whatever deserves to be loved ... and respected.
Whoever offends or threatens, or injures or kills a gay person commits a serious or very serious sin that must give account. In legal terms, then, is just that meets any of the crimes he commits. So far I have no difficulty to express my full and unconditional solidarity with gay people. Solidarity as individuals, not as homosexuals.
I'd give my support to assaulting a police officer because of his uniform, to a mother for her role discriminated against, insulted an architect as such, to a butcher because it is a vegetarian ... I would be willing to empathize with young people, the elderly, the sick and the workers ...
To give solidarity to gay people as such would promote 'homosexuality, would argue that they are homosexual or heterosexual is irrelevant. No. Homosexuality is not equal to heterosexuality. It is not the same thing. It does not have the same meaning. It does not have the same consequences, or to the person or to society. Being homosexual or heterosexual is not indifferent.
Heterosexuals who exaggerated in explaining what is beautiful and just and good sympathize with homosexuals wonder: would you rather have a child homo or hetero?
Solidarity with the people ... you! ... Promotion of 'homosexuality ... not!
January 8th, 2010
No person is equal to (thankfully) to another. Homosexual and heterosexual share many things in common, among all the membership of the human race (and sometimes animal). But they have the same rights nor the same social recognition, or often the same respect. But pay the same taxes, have the same problems as heterosexual, fall in love and get sick as heterosexual, etc. ...
The fundamental difference is, as I try to understand these two articles, which are a minority in a heterosexist society, working under strict rules of gender and the only way in which wrongly considered normal or is that just straight.
All of this makes sense for you and your catholic religion, he has not been the same way for a layman who must ensure equal rights (and duties of course) at all. And to impose a moral and religious beliefs as if it were the law or as if it were the only criterion for distinguishing what is good or bad, right or wrong, it is religious fanaticism. Phenomenon very, very dangerous.
You know what's the big problem facing gay people (and transgender)? Ignorance, heterosexism, homo and cross-negativity of people like you.
January 13th, 2010
"To heterosexuals who exaggerated explain in what is beautiful and good and just sympathize with homosexuals wonder: would you rather have a child homo or hetero?"
Some people who know the value of love would respond with such, but their tranquility
they would rather have a child can love.
October 28th, 2009
I immerse myself completely for us to imagine the best, and see the world upside down makes an impression.
I'd like to read it straight and that many of you identify with to the point of really understanding what it is.
December 22nd, 2009
This article has been read by me, Sylvia, a girl straight, who have realized how foolish prejudices against homosexuals.
And I'll tell you, I did a lot of good read. I got shot down so many things and many mental barriers. If we read all this, perhaps society would be better!
October 23rd, 2009
It 'a really nice article, I do not know why but made me feel more peaceful about my homosexuality. Reading a thing does understand how it is all relative. And then identification with the part of the strong side of society is a real pleasure.
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